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Before the Dawn (2019) is, without exaggeration, the worst film I’ve ever seen—and for one giant reason: it’s pedophile apologia.

Yes, the script is laughably bad, the performances are wood stiff, and the whole thing reeks of self-importance. But what really makes it irredeemable is how brazenly it romanticizes statutory rape.

Look at the poster. The framing is a giant red flag: a classroom, a chalkboard, students in their desks—then front and center, a teacher in a low-cut red top pressing forehead-to-forehead with a teenage boy. The film isn’t hiding its subject matter. It’s flaunting it.

And in case you think this is going to be a hard look at a predatory teacher? Nope. The movie bills itself as romance. A tale of “forbidden love.” Complete with sex scenes between a grown adult woman and a student the script explicitly identifies as a child. His own mother calls him that on screen. She’s the lone character sounding alarms, yet even she never calls the cops.

What’s worse is how the movie spins the teacher. She’s not written as a manipulative abuser—she’s painted as a tragic victim of fate, a woman who “just can’t deny her feelings.” But everything she does is textbook predator behavior. She initiates the flirtation. She arranges secret after-school sessions. She isolates him from peers. That’s not chemistry. That’s grooming.

Then comes one of the most revolting narrative choices: she’s raped by another teacher, a jealous colleague. But instead of being treated with the horror it deserves, the assault is basically used to reposition her as the damsel so her student can rush in as a white knight. She’s still framed as sympathetic, while the student’s abuse is reframed as noble love.

And here’s the kicker: lead actress Alana de Freitas didn’t just star as the teacher. She wrote the screenplay. Which makes the whole thing reads like wish fulfillment. The teacher is styled as an almost flawless archetype, her only “sin” being that she “follows her heart.”

The reception is equally nauseating. It sits at 5.8 on IMDb—above average. Read the reviews and you’ll see people praising it as “taboo romance” or “forbidden fruit.” Some even root for the characters to stay together.

Festivals went further. LA Femme International Film Festival nominated it for Best Feature Film. Boston International and Focus International both did likewise. Why on earth are professional festivals handing trophies to what amounts to pedophile propaganda?

Let’s be honest. If the genders were reversed, there would have been outrage. The movie would’ve been buried. Instead, Before the Dawn got distribution through Indie Rights, found its way onto Apple TV, Roku, and Pluto TV, and even snagged a write-up in American Cinematographer—where the DP proudly talks about building rain rigs out of Hudson sprayers and bouncing light off a king-sized bedsheet. Microbudget quirks shouldn’t eclipse the fact that what they were lighting was a sex scene between a teacher and her student.

This gets to the bigger problem: society’s double standard when it comes to female sexual predators. When the abuser is an attractive blonde, too many people celebrate it. “Boys should be grateful,” they say. Grateful that someone with authority over them coerces them into sex? Call it what it is: rape.

And this isn’t some obscure edge case. Google “female teacher charged with sexual assault” and you’ll see fresh arrests almost every week. Women abusing boys. Women abusing girls. These are predators with direct access to children, and somehow movies like Before the Dawn end up celebrating them.

Some defenders try to split hairs, calling this ephebophilia instead of pedophilia. But ephebophilia isn’t even a recognized clinical diagnosis. The law is crystal clear: anyone under the age of consent is a child. Which makes this predatory behavior. Full stop.

Normally, I’d link to streaming platforms so you can judge a film for yourself. Not this time. Before the Dawn disgusts me too much. It’s out there on major corporate platforms, which in itself is damning—they’ll happily profit off a film that romanticizes teacher-student rape, as long as the predator is a pretty woman.

@movies@piefed.social

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[–] MTK@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago

Boy is raped by adult woman, the media: teacher had sex with student and gets a $1000 fine and 2 weeks of community service!

Girl is raped by adult man: pedophilic teacher rapes young girl, get 30 years in prison.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

When the abuser is an attractive blonde, too many people celebrate it. “Boys should be grateful,” they say.

Yeah, unfortunately I've even seen my father say something of that sort. An underage student (male) reported a teacher (female) for raping him. My father noted how stupid he was, and that he should have just been happy and consider himself lucky.
Unfortunately I felt like I had no right to respond to that as I was the same age as that student at the time.

[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 47 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I recall seeing the description on Apple TV and thinking WTF?

It's also worth noting that there's no Wikipedia page for this, which is at the very least odd in a world where pages exist for movies that haven't even been released yet.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 18 points 18 hours ago

It's also worth noting that there's no Wikipedia page for this, which is at the very least odd in a world where pages exist for movies that haven't even been released yet.

That's pretty fascinating. Not even a mention on the disambiguation page.

[–] DeceasedPassenger@lemmy.world 16 points 18 hours ago

Amazing, the apologia continues in the comments here in a few forms. This movie really catalyzes the heart of the issue, which you pointed out. The double standard around female pedophiles needs to END.

[–] Zirconium@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

I thought you were talking about After the Dark (2013) until I saw the picture. Man that movie also has creepy pedophilic undertones and is a very bad movie if anyone wants to hear my rage over it.

[–] Fredselfish@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

Fucking poster creepy as fuck too. Looks like some Christian propaganda to make marrying children okay.

How the hell is this on any mainstream platform. I'm not shocked though Hollywood is full of pedophiles and those that exploit youth. There is also Loving Annabelle that also has great ratings

Look at that poster and the ratings. This was a movie about a teacher that is seduced by her student. Spoiler at least the teacher gets arrested in the end.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Hey OP there's this amazing movie called Licorice Pizza from visionary director/auteur Paul Thomas Anderson which you should check out. It's a 70s period piece drama-comedy about young people struggling to hit personal development milestones - or trying to hit them way too early!

It's a tasteful look at an odd couple relationship that doesn't shy away from asking hard questions or being morally ambiguous. Something about it reminded me of the Coen brothers film A Serious Man specifically but it had a similar sense of humour to all their movies. Easily one of the best films of the 2020s for me. As an easter egg for PTA fans it is wild to see Philip Seymoure Hoffman's son take a leading role when they look so similar and his father featured so heavily in the other PTA movies.

[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago

It is loosely based on a true story too. Paul Thomas Anderson is friends with the now grown male protagonist.

[–] bufalo1973@tuiter.rocks 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

@atomicpoet @movies is she a Mormon or something like that?

[–] atomicpoet@piefed.social 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Nope, in the film she teaches at a Catholic school.

[–] bufalo1973@tuiter.rocks 4 points 19 hours ago
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