How to support your friends : rpgmemes

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 85 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The other players must know this person well to know they'd like all this.

[–] mossy_@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago

yeah if my group did this for me I'd involuntary detonate from the attention

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 83 points 2 weeks ago

I would be uncomfy with people making that big a deal out of it but very very happy for them

[–] webp@mander.xyz 44 points 2 weeks ago

Rolled a 20 when making friends

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 31 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

This is cool and all but I can't help but wonder why they went to the trouble to get them a squishy chair, of all things. Everywhere I've ever came to be just use whatever chairs were sitting around no matter the circumstances. Weird.

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 29 points 2 weeks ago

They probably just like comfy squishy chairs and brought one in for the sake of it. If it's anything like any group I've been part of, it was people saying "Lets do something nice for X" and then trying to come up with ideas. One person then goes "They like squishy chairs" and someone else goes "OH I HAVE ONE I CAN BRING IN!" and then they move on

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

They had surgery was my guess at least

[–] lemmy_acct_id_8647@lemmy.world 27 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Wow. This is so much better than the nat 1 I rolled at my coming out to friends which landed me playing DnD alone since

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 16 points 2 weeks ago

Sorry to know!

Everyone, let's make them join a party!

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

sounds like you dodged several bullets. as a cis person i would expect all kinds of betrayal and bullshit from people if their apparent affection towards me depends on my gender identity.

[–] NKBTN@feddit.uk 7 points 1 week ago

hugs

You'd be welcome at my table, FWIW

[–] vapeloki@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago

Damn Onion cutting ninjas!

[–] moody@lemmings.world 23 points 2 weeks ago

Sounds like a bunch of friends who already knew and were just waiting for her to come out on her own terms.

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 11 points 2 weeks ago

I want a comfy squishy chair.

[+] JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works -11 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

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[–] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 37 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Friendship is not a zero sum game. I gift stuff to my friends because I want to see that dumbass smile, not because I expect something in return.

[–] FinalRemix@lemmy.world 27 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You literally just said you expect a smile in return. Checkmate.

[–] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 35 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Yeah but I'm not taking it from them. They can keep it, I'm just looking

[–] snugglesthefalse@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago

That's what a smilestealer would say to make us careless. I'm onto you.

[–] four@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 weeks ago

They license you the rights to view it, while still keeping the ownership

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

NFT Smile

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

...

So you saw a single meme about a single persons perspective and went "Well clearly if this one person is getting treated well, no one else is getting extra attention and kindness"? What kind of bizarre ass logic is that?

Edit: This dudes posting history is kind of questionable. Recent comment of theirs they randomly asked if someone was on HRT after that person said they hadn't masturbated in a year. When they said they were on HRT but had nothing to do with it, dude doubled down saying "You don't think it could have something to do with it?" Then there's the removed sexist comment in their modlog.

[–] serenissi@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I saw the mentioned thread, tbh it seems not very unreasonable. hrt can change a lot about sexual stimulation and related emotions (ssri and other meds too).

with that said I neither read the modlog of that or of these removed comments nor intend to. I'm not supporting them in transphobia either of course.

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Very unreasonable to make that the single first question they ask and then to double down when the person tells them otherwise.

[–] serenissi@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

perhaps. but taken out of context (ie history) it can mean too that they or someone they know well had the same experience on hrt and they simply relate.

I'm playing the devil's advocate here.

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 week ago

If I were judging that comment in isolation, I'd probably give them the benefit of the doubt. In combination with the comment on this thread though, I feel like any of my doubt is dispelled

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Again, not if you are randomly asking that as the first thing and if you refuse their answer of no. They know themselves better.

I get playing Devils Advocate, I do it a lot myself, but this case is getting dismissed with prejudice

Oh yeah and because there is also this extremely sus comment

[–] serenissi@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

🤦🏻‍♀️

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Yeah dude is... Problematic

[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Why do you think they don't? It's just not a part of this story.

[+] JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works -13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

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[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 26 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

No one will miss you, transphobe.

Do love how you deleted your comment and said goodbye forever to me only to make yet another comment on my post. Run along, child

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