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[–] biggerbogboy@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I genuinely have this, they're an absolutely awesome group of friends I would never trade for anything. Whenever I get invited places however, I tend to be the friend who can't go due to random shit happening, such as my dad spontaneously deciding to have the family make sausages on the day I was supposed to head to a friend's house, for example.

[–] als@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 day ago

Only slightly?

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago
[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I had something close to this. They were hot garbage at invites and really didn't care about each other all that much. Accepting? Sure. Needing care? It was worse than group therapy. Most conversations were a one-way, somewhat transactional affair.

I'm still looking. :)

[–] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social 1 points 1 day ago

My jabber is on my bio if y’all want to add me 😁
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