It’s transness as desire rather than rejection.
I like this framing as it underscores naturally that much of the suffocating gender norms we live under are composed almost entirely of rejection and denial of desire (men don't wear this, women don't do that, men don't walk like that, women don't say things like that etc...) which is precisely what creates the violent force to conform.
I love this perspective because it underlines what makes transness so beautiful, it is a process of fierce desire among the deluge of rejection and denial we are all drowning in.