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[โ€“] Kovpak@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Ideology ๐Ÿ™‚

[โ€“] Narwhalrus@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It does seem like some servers have specific niches, so if you're really interested in a specific servers niche using that instance would prevent you from having to sync those communities with your instance.

I'm new, so someone correct me if I'm wrong.

[โ€“] MDKAOD@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Nobody asked my opinion but my interpretation of how this whole fediverse "should" work is that while there can be empirical instances, federation shines with smaller, easy to manage instances thst connect to each other.

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[โ€“] Grishaix@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago
[โ€“] jaanus20@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Is there really a difference between the different servers? I just browse all (It's lemm.ee btw)

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[โ€“] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

Iโ€™m a pirate ๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ and like the community itself, friendly and helpful.

[โ€“] Goose@feddit.uk 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

as a Greylag goose i flock to feddit.uk

[โ€“] Apoidea@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Tried to join but looks like they don't accept disposable emails unfortunately.

[โ€“] zav@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Literally just picked the biggest one to maximise the content I see

Rn it matters a bit, wont in a few weeks tho i think

[โ€“] god@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

Why won't it? Do you think updates will make the fragmentation of content better in a few weeks?

[โ€“] azvasKvklenko@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

For some reason I couldn't join lemmy.world and few other popular instances, be it because of technical issues, load, idk. I joined sh.itjust.works because I wanted to check fediverse before I commit to host my own instance, which I probably will at some point.

[โ€“] gaydarless@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago

Lemmy.ca felt like a natural home as an IRL Canadian resident. I like the variety of content and the moderation seems good so far.

[โ€“] Fizz@lemmy.nz 1 points 2 years ago

I saw a local instance for new Zealanders and joined.

[โ€“] monobot@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Others did not exist back than.

[โ€“] nachtigall@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

There was good olโ€™ Lemmygrad ^^

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I frequently see Stux on mastodon, and I think they're a good person so I decided to choose one of their instances when choosing a Lemmy server.

[โ€“] Flaky@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 2 years ago

The domain name. And the community seemed friendly enough. Now with the Reddit exodus, I'm glad I migrated to a smaller instance.

[โ€“] SaintWacko@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

lemmy.world because it was top recommended. In the future I might change to either host my own or use my wife's ex-husband's instance.

[โ€“] usernotfound@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Is that a roundabout way of saying you're getting a divorce? Does she know?

[โ€“] lodion@aussie.zone 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wanted an instance specifically for Australians... so I made one ๐Ÿ˜€

[โ€“] joelfromaus@aussie.zone 1 points 2 years ago

Doing great work mate!

[โ€“] funnyletter@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago

It federates with the servers that have some stuff I want access to on them, and it also has rules against being a huge douche. And it's supported by Jerboa.

That's pretty much it. Mix of convenience and what passes for my moral scruples.

[โ€“] Jourei@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I was going to choose sopuli.xyz but you need to give them a reason to why you want there and I never heard back from them and logging in does nothing, so I assume I was not selected. I say it would be fair if there was some message to go f myself so that I wouldn't be held in eternal limbo.

So I chose lemmy.world as it's a general purpose instance and immediate registry.

[โ€“] OnionFutures@vlemmy.net 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I was planning to sign up at BeeHaw because it seems pretty active and with high quality discussions. When I heard that it had defederated from Lemmy.ml and Lemmy.world I decided not to sign up to any of those three as I would rather have access to all of them (though I can understand why BeeHaw defederated). So I just went with VLemmy.net as it was one of the recommended ones (on join-lemmy.org and the Awesome-Lemmy-Instances GitHub) and seems to be very broadly federated.

I don't think it matters too much, though I think if you were signed up on the same instances as all your favourite communities it would be a bit more convenient.

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[โ€“] Mane25@feddit.uk 1 points 2 years ago

I tried a few, at one point a few weeks ago I thought I would stick with lemmy.world because (then) it wasn't the most popular instance and seemed to have good resources... but then it became the most popular instance and got defederated by beehaw (and I was subscribed to a few beehaw communities). So I signed up to feddit.uk just because I'm from the UK and it seemed solid. I think if you have no strong niche interest then picking one made for your region/country is a pretty good bet.

[โ€“] TheCee@programming.dev 1 points 2 years ago

It was that or Beehaw and Beehaw happened to be down at the time.

[โ€“] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

One of the few only lgbt friendly servers

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[โ€“] knobbysideup@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

I added an account to a few geared towards specific community types. Then I can easily switch accounts and view local.

I'm considering standing up an instance for this type of thing myself.

[โ€“] Snowman44@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I saw a youtube video that said lemmy.ml was full so you can't join. I just picked a random one that wasn't ml so I chose lemmy.world

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[โ€“] legendaryq@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I picked lemmy.world because it was recommended and had a large userbase. I know Beehaw defederated from lemmy.world and sh.itjustwor.ks, so if you want to interact with that community, that could be a consideration against, but since the user population across all of Lemmy is currently increasing dramatically, I think everything's a bit of a moving target regardless.

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