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[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 days ago

Ahh, so white men are finally developing some social awareness. That's excellent news, thank you for sharing, Fox.

[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 38 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Afraid to speak freely about what?

[–] Scottyc65@reddthat.com 46 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Walking on eggshells = not able to say dumb racist shit without getting called out.

[–] seejur@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago

Tbh white women are equally as capable of saying racists shit, and work or not

[–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 38 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

This reminds me of a former colleague. He'd always complain that he can't say anything at work anymore and humor is forbidden. Examples were: Our suppliers don't issue bikini model calenders anymore, even though that was some harmless fun! Also hanging up bikini model calenders is not allowed anymore! It was just some harmless fun. And back then female colleagues didn't complain when you told them to make coffee for you. They are so uncooperative and easily offended nowadays!

[–] nickiwest@lemmy.world 27 points 2 days ago (2 children)

"You can't even tell a coworker that you think she's cute any more!"

My brother in Christ, the new intern doesn't need comments on her looks from someone who is (1) higher than she is on the org chart and (2) older than her actual father. Just stop.

If you wouldn't say it to a male coworker, don't say it to any coworker. It's not that hard.

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[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

I can assure you in the construction industry they are saying and doing every little thing they want without any consequences bless their hearts

[–] enthusiasm_headquarters@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As a white man I find walking on eggshells to have an extreme rejuvenating effect on my skin, making my feet feel soft, refreshed, and ready to take whatever the night has to offer.

Haha thanks enthusiasm! We are trans inclusive women only, so please don't comment again thanks for understanding 😊

[–] mad_lentil@lemmy.ca 33 points 3 days ago

walking on eggshells

Translation: considering who you're speaking to when you speak to them.

Even 8 year olds know that you should think before speaking.

[–] MystValkyrie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I work with a bunch of white men, and I'm definitely the one who has to walk on eggshells.

That's excellently put. Many times I've had to be careful not to say anything feminist/inclusive around certain white men cos it's professionally or even physically dangerous

[–] bacon_pdp@lemmy.world 41 points 3 days ago

So they think me demanding that they stop talking about my body in sexual terms is walking on eggshells. Entitled fucks.

This sort of shit is why when my husband offered, I went with stay at home housewife. The pay might be only in love and caring but at least no one feels entitled to my emotional labor or my physical labor or my mind or my body or my sexuality.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 days ago

Only brown eggs.

[–] NikolaTeslasPigeon@lemmy.world 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

If you're a white man who feels like they have to walk on eggshells at work because of that white male identity, you're pretty fragile. I'd hate to see you have to navigate the same social norms that non white males have to. You'd fucking crumble.

Yep, try being a black trans man ffs. They wouldn't last a minute

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[–] Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 3 days ago

White men around my job site freely walk around with MAGA hats. The only eggshells I see are beneath those who would talk to them.

[–] ToadOfHypnosis@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

*Racist, misogynist asshole white men are walking around on eggshells at work. Fixed it. I never walk around on eggshells at work as a white man. This is a Fox News survey so so I’m sure this is accurate for their viewership.

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