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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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We are just finding out about a child sex trafficking ring involving politicians and billionaires, the world’s richest man does a Nazi salute at a political rally, and the President being an adjudicated sex criminal is probably not the worst thing he has done…

Meanwhile I’m standing here in the checkout line feeling guilty about whether or not I should tip a barista

Something is wrong with our collective notion of morality, and my individual understanding (Oh well, here we are)

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[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 57 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

On a related note, the latest Trump administration cabinent picks and antics unironically cured my impostor syndrome.

If these gaggle of fucking demented backstabbing morons are good enough to run this country...

And they can show that about half the country is actually so stupid and or intentionally blind and or evil to somehow not realize their cult leader just obviously is a huge rapist and pedoohile...

Then I am better than this country.

Better qualified, more empathetic, more competent.

Turns out it was just angry clowns gaslighting us the whole time.

Well uh fuck em, this is all so stupid that I now actually have the correct amount of self-confidence and self-respect, it is indeed this entire society that is a joke, not that I am somehow fundamentally inadequate.

[–] stelelor@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 days ago

"Only those who do not seek power are qualified to hold it." Plato knew what was up.

[–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

it's easier to get ahead with a weaker skillset if you're ok with fucking over someone else to get there.

[–] rayyy@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

angry clowns

We are stuck in a surreal angry clowns horror movie.

[–] WiseScorpio@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Chatting with a buddy of mine this morning. He is looking at stuff he did in his life. He went to see the play, Annie, when he was a kid.

"They wouldn't do Annie today, it's too woke" I said. Then, it dawned on me. "I'm wrong. Annie would be totally fine.

Short review: 'An orphaned girl is bought by a billionaire real estate magnate and groomed at a luxury resort," would fit right in with the morals of a political party

[–] Balerion@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Honestly, I think my moral OCD needed to hear this.

[–] etherphon@lemmy.world 239 points 3 days ago (1 children)

And make sure to turn off all the lights and appliances you're not using to save power for the AI. This future is trash.

[–] halcyoncmdr@lemmy.world 38 points 3 days ago (1 children)

And reduce your water usage because it's a drought. While we grow water heavy crops like almonds in those drought stricken regions and foreign investors from arid countries grow water heavy crops like alfalfa solely for export back home.

[–] freeman@feddit.org 6 points 2 days ago

Or specifically bred/GMOd soy and corn which gets used for animal food instead of soy and corn humans could eat.

(Nothing against GMO, but against our high animal produce consumption)

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 16 points 2 days ago

While people in power are absolute evil most of the time, this is not an excuse to change your own morals for the worse.

Small acts of kindness, when taken in decent quantity, change the world no less than massive fraud and sex trafficking.

That said, one of the most moral things to do is to be on the lookout for powerful people doing nasty things and do everything in your capacity to prevent or at least retaliate. This makes abuse less common, and goes a long way to restore democracy and responsibility for everyone.

[–] PicardyNerd@lemmy.today 5 points 2 days ago

Apparently this is not a shower thought🤔 /s

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 27 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Our leaders are so disconnected from the average person only them being forced to confront their own mortality can snap them out of it.

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[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 125 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Just finding out? Haha, no, we've known about this ring for the better part of a decade now. The wealthy and powerful probably a lot longer than that.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 64 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Even the next part:

world’s richest man does a Nazi salute at a political rally,

Don't get me wrong, horrible and completely unacceptable.

But sure as shit is nowhere near the line of what's happened with the last 100 years:

The Business Plot, also called the Wall Street Putsch[1] and the White House Putsch, was a political conspiracy in 1933 in the United States to overthrow the government of President Franklin D. Roosevelt and install Smedley Butler as dictator.[2][3] Butler, a retired Marine Corps major general, testified under oath that wealthy businessmen were plotting to create a fascist veterans' organization with him as its leader and use it in a coup d'état to overthrow Roosevelt. In 1934, Butler testified under oath before the United States House of Representatives Special Committee on Un-American Activities (the "McCormack–Dickstein Committee") on these revelations.[4] Although no one was prosecuted, the congressional committee final report said, "there is no question that these attempts were discussed, were planned, and might have been placed in execution when and if the financial backers deemed it expedient."

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Business_Plot

In case anyone's eyes glazed over instead of reading, two key points:

wealthy businessmen were plotting to create a fascist veterans' organization with him as its leader and use it in a coup d'état to overthrow Roosevelt.

And even more importantly:

Although no one was prosecuted, the congressional committee final report said, "there is no question that these attempts were discussed, were planned, and might have been placed in execution when and if the financial backers deemed it expedient."

Shit didn't just get bad, it's been bad.

And the way to fight it is an opposition party like FDR.

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[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Actually over 2 decades, now. Epstein's plea deal was in 2008 under Bush.

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[–] lerba@sopuli.xyz 16 points 2 days ago

Don't expect the world to reward your good behavior. You will find your own internal motivation, or maybe not. But judging others never ends well. Just focus on your own actions. Nobody says being a good human being is easy...

[–] benni@lemmy.world 31 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Are you really feeling guilty about not tipping because of the moral implications, or do you just feel socially shamed? Important distinction.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Considering the idea of shame is society's way to enforce it's version of morality, I would argue no it is not a distinction.

[–] benni@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Like you said, society's version of morality. So it can be a very important distinction because your own version of morality might differ. Not being aware of this distinction is dangerous because it stops people from developing their own moral compass. This own morality is more firm and can be relied on in the absence of shame, or even when society encourages behavior one finds immoral.

I'm even gonna go on a wilder speculation here and claim that one of the driving factors behind humanity's worst atrocities was that large portions of society who had the potential in them for a firm morality rooted in empathy and love never developed this potential.

On a less import note, not being aware of this distinction can breed a lot of resentment and unhappiness, if someone is constantly compelled to follow rules that they, deep down, consider to be bullshit.

Of course that doesn't mean I encourage people to just disregard society's version of morality and lightly assume that they know better.

Edit: just noticed your username, I hope that furriosa is doing well <3

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 2 days ago

*Furryosa is doing well and thank you for acknowledging me.

But fuck you anyways!

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[–] Strider@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I am surprised by you being surprised, I knew for about 10 years.

Epstein also definetly did not kill himself but the media in my country is already reporting him as suicide now, and people forget.

[–] MrScottyTay@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Just finding out? Hasn't all of this been known for almost a decade now?

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago

I would go with modern socialism/communism but, ever since Joe McCarthy, america tastes bile in their throat every time those words are bandied about. Pavlov and B.F. Skinner would be proud.

[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 48 points 3 days ago (1 children)

No, your notion of morality is accurate, there's no reason to race to the bottom because someone else sucks more.

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[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 54 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Capitalism rewards the most heartless greedy pieces of shit. Simple as. It is, in fact, not the best type of economy for any kind of moral society.

[–] Resonosity@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago

Viva la revolucion

[–] Hikermick@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

Don't forget, while the Qanon BS is flourishing, a former Speaker of the House (3rd in line to the presidecy) gets imprisoned for molesting at least four teenage boys.

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've learned paedophiles seem to be naturally skilled with grabbing power throughout history and the present is no differnt. I'm more aware of that fact now.

I've also learmed a large percentage of humans actually are fine with their leaders raping children. One might think they're fine with it in general.

[–] fishy@lemmy.today 4 points 2 days ago

They have no morals, which is why they can grab power so easily. They're not playing by the rules. Thus to win consistently, you'd need to cheat as well.

Then you're left with two options. Cheat to win too, or rolling heads.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Morality and laws are for the plebs. If you’re rich or powerful enough, you get to do whatever you want, so long as you don’t harm another rich or powerful person.

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 19 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

we known it since 2019, when he epsteined himself. and it went back decades, the MSM did thier best to not report it for the last 4 years. because too many politicians, both US and the world leaders, plus many donors. just like with the panama papers.

[–] Asswardbackaddict@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (13 children)

Maxwell's father worked for various intelligence agencies. This appears to be a blackmail operation by the Mossad and/or the CIA. The former Israeli Prime Minister visited Epstein's home several times.

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[–] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's a tough go for the people who believe in pacifism or nonviolent change.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Dual Power means you can have a pacifist stance and still support the radicals in your lane.

Not everyone needs to be a gunslinger for a resistance to succeed. Just do what you can when you have the chance.

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[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

The thing is:

The little things do matter. They shape who you are. They shape the lives of the people around you. They're important.

But this is like a death-penalty-on-the-table-murder-trial being interrupted by a nuclear bomb. And that shit always happens.

Yes this other shit happens more, yes it's a priority, and yes none of your everyday decency will influence it in the slightest, but it still matters.

You just also have to fix that other shit.

It's not'nothing matters' its 'fuck, more work'.

[–] MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Don't worry, as the economy becomes more stressed and people become more desperate, morality will fly out the window and become completely secondary to survival. Even those who succumb to that desperation will be ahead of the game on the morality spectrum though. There is a huge difference between stealing to feed your family and steeling purely out of greed.

Also, tipping culture is a cancer that needs to die. So don't feel guilty about not tipping.

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[–] JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works 12 points 3 days ago

You're just finding out maybe.

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