What does "asking for trouble" mean to people? I would interpret it as "choosing to take an unnecessary risk". It's not a term I would use in this context, but it doesn't necessarily imply that being the source of the trouble is morally permissible.
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Here it is implied girls dressed a certain way is a prompt.
And it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to extrapolate “bad things happen to them” from trouble.
I want to take the opportunity to leave this here: https://sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/
Yeah, I feel like this will get accused of being victim blaming, but it could just as easily be something analogous to leaving a stack of cash in plain view in a parked car. Morally fine, but that's not much comfort to me when my window gets smashed and the cash is taken.
Boys thinking it's a girl's fault are in for trouble.
Boys referring to themselves as trouble, accidentally
so if I, a man, dress in revealing clothing, girls will give me trouble?
This sounds promising.
I know right? Just as I started to feel comfortable shirtless too.
More interesting would be the trend over time.
I suspect this is down quite a bit from previous generations, say, 50 years ago.
As a woman with two neices in highschool I'm more interested in what people think right now.
I first read the last bit of the title as, "says third grade boys." I was really confused as to why they were polling third-graders to begin with. I thought girls still had icky cooties when I was that age.
That's explain why third of boys are forever single.