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I know im young and stuff but i feel lost like i have no sense of what i want to do now or later. How did you decide what to do with your life? What free wisdom can you share?

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

It was the only thing I’m really good at, and I enjoy doing it.

Turns out, I like doing it for me, not as much doing it for some big corpo. But hey, I’m still good at it.

Now I get to do it for me again, cause I started my own business, and I’m a lot happier than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 1 points 5 days ago

Might be obvious, but see what topics or broad subjects you like or dislike and use them to narrow down your options. Also applies to skills or processes. If you enjoy creating something from scratch or solving problems for example, that could help you decide on a career or category of careers you'd have fun (or at least not dread) doing. For an admittedly extreme example I've been set on engineering since sixth grade not because I had some pre-existing passion for R&D or building stuff, but because I liked math and science (but not biology, fuck biology) and hated memorization (and humanities pretty much by extension). If you don't have the information about yourself to choose these kinds of criteria, then you should try new stuff until you do. This could be coding, a new language or even sewing or whatever, but the best way to get to know yourself is to expose yourself to new things and see what sticks and what doesn't.

[–] baggins@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago

It was an accident

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago

Well. First my body made it clear I had to eat and drink. Then it became clear I had to have shelter. Then I realized I just have to do whatever I can get my hands on doing to not die. So that's what I'm doing.

Unless your mommy and daddy have a lot of money, you're not going to have a whole lot of choice in the matter. You're just going to do what you have to.

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