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[–] PonyOfWar@pawb.social 57 points 4 days ago

I hope nobody will trust them with their data after this. Just leaving their databases open to the public is horrendous. Though I fully expect this kind of stuff to happen way more often over the next few years, with the rise of "vibe coding".

[–] thoon@feddit.nl 26 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 18 points 4 days ago

Its a glorified misandrous burn book.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 19 points 4 days ago

I feel like this would be unconscionable if it was only employees with access to everything unencrypted. To just leave all this stuff open to the world is beyond the pale.

[–] theangriestbird@beehaw.org 15 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I feel like we just straight up cannot trust corporate apps with our data. Time to go back to signal groups like the rest of us, ig.

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 2 points 4 days ago

I use encrypted apps with some regularity, but for now, I'm not too concerned about inert conversation being plaintext.

[–] Sneptaur@pawb.social 16 points 4 days ago

Mister president, a second data breach has hit the shit-talking app

[–] TehPers@beehaw.org 8 points 4 days ago

Am I missing something here? The article talks only about how user data was exposed, including the data on men being discussed in private messages. I don't see any mention about any of what's being discussed in these comments.

I get that there's probably some talking behind backs or whatever going on in the app, but both criticism and defense of it seems completely irrelevant to the article in question.

If anything, the article goes to show just how wide of an impact the breach has. It not only is a violation of the users privacy (again), but also of personal information of non-users, including relationship history and sexual preferences of both the women on the app and the men they're discussing.

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 10 points 4 days ago

For all the spilling they're doing, this is some of the most spot-on branding I've seen.

[–] LilB0kChoy@piefed.social 7 points 4 days ago
[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 4 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Imagine if men made an app like this

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 14 points 4 days ago

You mean like Facebook originally was?

[–] CoolThingAboutMe@beehaw.org 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

An app where men protect each other from women who are emotionally and physically unsafe? I don't see the problem.

[–] socialsecurity@piefed.social 1 points 1 day ago

That's not what this app was...

[–] shishka_b0b@lemmy.zip 9 points 4 days ago

Imagine if men had an actual need for an app like this

[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

You mean, like this very app?

Founder Sean Cook launched Tea after witnessing his mother’s terrifying experience with online dating

https://www.teaforwomen.com/about

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Go on?

It would be a combination of InternetToughGuy, ThatHappened, and a bathroom stall?

It would be used for "no homo" meetups?

It would herald an era of men sharing their feelings?

It would be covered with porn and axel grease and sound like a Harley with a rough idle?

I have no idea where you are going with this.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 points 4 days ago

"bathroom stall" would be a great name

[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today 3 points 4 days ago

The ethical aspect of this would be made a far greater deal than this app faces.

[–] irvinefantasyno@beehaw.org -5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Men mad that the app exists are part of the problem.

Non-men are still gonna talk shit and warn about ya, so die mad about it I guess.

[–] JakobFel@retrolemmy.com 13 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Yeah, imagine men being angry that raging feminists had an app which allowed them to dox any man they want and ruin that man's reputation (and life).

Them darneded men!

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

You can tell a lot about a person by whether they think the word "feminist" is a negative or a positive

[–] BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Feminism - good

App dedicated to talking shit about people - bad

Seems straightforward.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 3 days ago

You'd think so but Jakob made it about Feminist Bad so at least some people are tripping up on it

[–] JakobFel@retrolemmy.com 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Notice I didn't specify "all feminists" here but you assumed I meant all.

Says more about that movement than you realize.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

And so you decided to leave a comment which made your views on the movement as a whole very clear, enforcing the assumption I made

Thanks!

[–] JakobFel@retrolemmy.com 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have zero shame in saying that I hate almost nothing more than I hate feminism, but like I said, you spoke volumes about your movement by automatically jumping to that conclusion.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You truly think it says more about my assumption than it says about the subtext that bleeds through in your words?

[–] irvinefantasyno@beehaw.org -3 points 4 days ago

Damn, shut up, clown.