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All we need to do is put me in charge of all the rules because I know best and everyone else is wrong (infosec.pub)
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[–] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 1 points 12 hours ago

Agreed. Another issue is that parents have the ability to discipline their children with no checks and balances so they aren't always able to help their kids through things if the kid's afraid of being punished. They need trustworthy adults In Their lives who aren't im charge of them

[–] Stillwater@sh.itjust.works 49 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

It should be the parents' responsibility to parent their children. And the government's responsibility to step in when the parents are abusive or neglectful.

[–] ViatorOmnium@piefed.social 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

From UNICEF's Children's Version/TLDR the Convention on the Rights of the Child:

  1. Best interests of the child

When adults make decisions, they should think about how their decisions will affect children. All adults should do what is best for children. Governments should make sure children are protected and looked after by their parents, or by other people when this is needed. Governments should make sure that people and places responsible for looking after children are doing a good job.

  1. Family guidance as children develop

Governments should let families and communities guide their children so that, as they grow up, they learn to use their rights in the best way. The more children grow, the less guidance they will need.

(emphasis mine)

  1. Protection from violence

Governments must protect children from violence, abuse and being neglected by anyone who looks after them.

This, plus all the rights that state that the default should be children being raised by their families, means what you are saying is literal international law everywhere except the US (though it's a application is still... frankly non existent in most of the world)

[–] Stillwater@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

And here with are with much of both the US and Europe enacting privacy-invading age verification laws instead of letting parents raise their kids.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 3 points 5 days ago

Parents are shit at raising children.

Both solutions are ass.

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

That doesn't really work in a world where the Internet exists. Specially in low-income or single-parent households.

[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

All these laws when you can just Child Safety Settings > Block List