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[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

someone corrected me on spelling "at least" "atleast"
like... alright? (wink wink nudge nudge)

anyways I was in a bad mood and wrote a passive aggressive message I ended up not sending

Words condense over time, it's not a crime to not type a space.

do you say "goodbye" or "God be with ye"? what about "gossip" or "farewell"?

What about a purpose misspelling being turned to one of the most common words in conversation? "all correct" -> "oll korect" -> "ok"

[–] wolfeh@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Using "they" as singular. Also, referring to animals besides humans as "he," "she," or "they" instead of "it."

I usually am a grammar nazi, but these are things I do very intentionally.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

By some standards, the Oxford comma is still incorrect grammar. I'll die on the hill that it has utility, and I'm glad it's becoming more of a commonly accepted convention.

[–] InfiniteHench@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Alright, which standards? Show your work or else I’m a call you a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

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[–] absolutejank@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

outside of like academic settings, anything should go. check out the previous sentence where i inserted an unnecessary “like” as an example. it reflects my train of thought and i type as i think. same thing should go for slang and stuff, if the best way to get your point across is with ideas that have not been accepted by the academic world then that’s totally skibidi tubular, man.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m fine with “free reign” and “beckon call” because the meaning is retained and language evolves.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago

I’ve started using “used to could” instead of “used to be able to”, and I will not stop.

[–] jjmoldy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Most of it. I don't know how people find the energy to give a shit about grammar in informal settings. If I can understand the meaning it's good enough for me.

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've recently come to the position that really, there isn't truly such a thing as incorrect grammar. There's grammar that doesn't fit the norm for the people one is speaking to, and if it's different enough to impair the ability for the intended audience to understand what you're communicating it can be impractical or inadvisable, but since grammar isn't an intrinsic part of the universe outside of human creation, and since the way it's used changes whenever people "break it's rules" in numbers over time, it can't actually be wrong. After all, someone could view something written in a very closely related foreign dialect as another similar language written correctly, or one's own language written incorrectly, and there isn't really a non-arbitrary way to decide which is the case.

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This is just practically and technically wrong. You're lightyears off.

Of course there are incorrect grammars. They wouldn't be called grammar. While the tolerance for these errs is greater than the textbook, if you stray too far then the meaning you're trying to convey would be lost.

No, grammar isn't some kind of made up notion. Without grammars, it's just a bunch of words with no meaning.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 3 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Grammar is literally just some made up notion

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[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

I like to say, for instance, "pool-go" instead of "go to the pool" when I'm amongst friends, because I'm pretty sure I heard constructions like this in a novel once where aliens learned to talk English. But incorrect, or at the very least uncommon usage like that definitely straddles the line between comprehensible and unintelligible.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (4 children)

The one thing I will insist on is the use of is/are. It's pretty simple, if referring to a countable set, use "are". E.g. there are four turtles in my sewer. You would not say "there are too much shit on this webpage", because that shit is uncountable.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Some things work differently between dialects of English. For example "the band is" (it is) vs "the band are" (they are).

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[–] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Nobody actually knows how to use "it begs the question" anyway. Even the ones who think they do.

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[–] fittedsyllabi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I is agreeable.

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