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[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I had been sick to death of Reddit for minimum of 5 years. When Boost for Android stopped working after the API fiasco I abandoned all of my moderated subs, some I'd been running for 15+ years. I left them all in a sweep and decided to let people fight over them. I didn't give a shit anymore.

Then I got banned for a totally innocuous comment, which honestly was the push I needed to un-bookmark it and never look back.

I've been on Lemmy for 2+ years I think and although a lot of the content is re-gurgitate-it, I think overall it's better here.

edit: I didn't say it very clearly. I was on Lemmy way before my ban because I was just exhausted with R as a platform already

[–] AnitaAmandaHuginskis@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

I'm not banned on Reddit. I just like the idea that a companies do not interfere in the Fediverse, or that at least we could detach from their servers.

[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

I only tolerated watching reddit using the slide app, so no app = no reddit.

I deleted all my posts.

One day when browsing from a VPN they said if you want to see this page you need to login. I reluctantly login, to get an email a few hours later "your account has been permanently banned for suspicious login"

[–] kreynen@kbin.melroy.org 5 points 9 months ago

@Abraxas@feddit.uk Never banned. Started exploring alternatives during API changes. Staying on federated because it makes more sense.

Everyone understand how ridiculous it would if you could only email people on same email service, but for some reason we accepted that limitation as normal for social posts for many years.

[–] BromSwolligans@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Came during the initial revolt. Increased attention after getting banned from Reddit because I joked I'd like a guy with a bunch of guns to give me one cause he had too many. They tried to say I was soliciting for the purchase of firearms, and when I said there was no way any serious person could have thought I was asking to buy a gun, they told me the lifetime ban was in place and if I ever came around again they'd ban me for ban evasion.

Lul. That place is a total fucking hellscape.

[–] TeddE@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Point of order - it's not a purchase if it's a gift

[–] Alaik@lemmy.zip 4 points 9 months ago

I already know you're pretty far left given they banned you for that. Right wingers im sure still say all of their unhinged shit there.

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[–] SparroHawc@lemmy.zip 5 points 9 months ago

I bailed when they started banning people for upvoting Luigi content. I'd already drastically reduced my usage when the appocalypse happened and RIF no longer worked, but that level of panopticon shit was too much.

[–] Zezzoz@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

I left after yet another ban.

1st time because I criticized the US. Second time cause I said that trump needs the Mussolini treatment.

With everything that is said on reddit this was tame in comparison. Then I landed on Lemmy, and it feels like I am out of the land of bots.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

I did. Not banned though.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

I left during the API thing, went back briefly later on, and left again when I realized how messed up moderation and subreddit rules had become. As usual, dumb business people are ruining that site for everyone.

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 4 points 9 months ago

only fully transitioned when I got banned for some statement defending victims of violence

started looking during the API fiasco

[–] MisterOwl@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Permabanned for supporting Luigi.

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 4 points 9 months ago

In this thread: People learning about digital immigration.

[–] dimjim@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 months ago

Like many in the comments, I left after the API changes. I'm not using their shitty app, and it's so bot infested now it's not even worth it.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 4 points 9 months ago

Not banned. It had been going downhill, so I made up my mind I'd leave during blackout, kbin.social had been shared by Ernest there (hope he's okay), and ended up on Lemmy.

Eta cool username

[–] MangoPenguin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 9 months ago

My app stopped working due to their API stuff so I just kinda stopped using it over the next few weeks, after trying to use it in a browser which was horrible.

[–] Cocopanda@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

I can create a new accounts if I wanted to. I just gave up on Reddit. They banned me for posting about how a local Nazi. Tried to get a youth center burned down because it had a LGBTQ flag up for pride month. The guy is a captain at a county jail to.

[–] Nikls94@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Came here during the API thing, but made a new account there for hobbies not present on lemmy.

[–] Clbull@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Wasn't banned, but I came here because I wanted to seek a genuine alternative. Reddit feels too censored and like you need to walk on eggshells to avoid the wrath of their moderators and admins.

Like... I genuinely can't use words like "incel", "cuck", "snowflake", "Trump", "Andrew Tate", etc without having my comment removed on most subs.

[–] LockheedTheDragon@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I lived through Livejournal choosing to destroy itself and saw Reddit doing the same things and worse and walked away. Choosing short term profits over people makes me NOPE out. No bans or warnings for me. I guess I just don't type "dangerous" stuff even though I consider myself pretty opinionated.

[–] kebab@endlesstalk.org 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Came here after my niche small Reddit client got officially shut down. When the API changes were announced, I knew that I’d rather switch than use their official Reddit client. I didn’t like that they charge AI companies for accessing my data and I don’t get any share of their profit neither. Here on Lemmy everyone can train their AI models on our data but at least there’s no random dude (spez) who profits off that.

The decentralization meaning that I can choose some random small instance and not be bound to the admins of any big one was another big point for Lemmy

My first account was on .ml roughly 5 years back, when it was basically the only instance. I had heard about there being a FOSS alternative to Reddit - but I quickly lost interest because the community was just too small back then. Re-activated my account when the API exodus happened, because there was finally a community large enough to provide a lived-in feeling. Have only gotten more dedicated to the Fediverse ever since.

[–] chosensilence@pawb.social 3 points 9 months ago

i was banned from reddit but had been wanting to leave for quite some time at that point, so it was a welcomed change. that's when i learned more about decentralized social networks and stuff.. glad to be here. i wouldn't go back to reddit even if i was allowed to.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 9 months ago

Got banned a little before the whole API thing because Reddit admins think child molesters deserve a safe space. Fuck them and their shithole site.

[–] BoredGamer@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I still use both but slowly making the transition to Lemmy. Been making political posts on Reddit for a while now & I'm convinced the mods of r/meme will perma ban me after my temp ban is lifted. Can't speak the truth even if it gets millions of views.

[–] selkiesidhe@sh.itjust.works 3 points 9 months ago

Yup. Then I forgot what community I was on and had to start over again.

[–] carlossurf@lemmy.ca 3 points 9 months ago

Me fuck reddit mods, bunch of basement dwelling nerds with nothing in life

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

2 years into the fediverse; left during the IPO enshittification nonsense when they removed public access APIs and made Apollo impossible.

[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Was tired of getting shit on by mods. I got banned from a sub for agreeing with a mod. Dipshit couldn't admit that he made a mistake and permabanned me. I got banned from two subs I had never been in for blocking a mod on a sub he wasn't a mod on. Little unhinged always on basement dwellers.

[–] punkwalrus@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

This platform became "mature" with less downtime around the Reddit API disaster, and I wanted to support it. I still use Reddit, but I go here first.

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