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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/vegemitemilkshake on 2025-07-10 23:01:20+00:00.
Leading with intent means being clear about why you’re having the conversation, and letting the other person know. Are you trying to understand? Solve a problem? Clear the air? Naming your purpose sets the tone.
Then, STFU—Seek To First Understand. Ask questions. Listen properly. Reflect back what you hear before jumping in with your own view.
When people know your intent and feel heard, conversations are calmer, clearer, and way more productive.
Also, sometimes it’s as simple as Shutting The Fuck Up and letting the other person talk.