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Hi, my name is copacetic and I buy ttrpg material which I never actually play. What is wrong with me?

Sure, you can tell me nothing is really wrong as long as I get some enjoyment out of it. What is going on though. Reading RPG books makes me dream of wonderful session which could happen. Ironic that it is a fantasy about fantasy.

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[–] Poringo@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago

I started buying so many ttrpg books when pandemic started. I particularly like Free League.

We played some Tales from the Loop and Vaesen, but preparing sessions take so much time and energy, I just could not keep up.

I also like to read the systems, some of them I have read all the way through and fantasizing about playing them.

I consider these books an investment for the future, just like my steam games haha.

[–] eerongal@ttrpg.network 3 points 2 years ago

Don't worry, sounds normal to me!

[–] Tim_Eagon@dice.camp 2 points 2 years ago

@copacetic sorry, can’t help you as I do the same!

[–] Lianodel@ttrpg.network 1 points 2 years ago

I also had a point where I realized that I knew I wasn't going to get every game I owned to the table.

I was immediately fine with it. Playing is a hobby, collecting is a hobby, and just plain reading those books is a hobby. I realized I just like reading different RPGs, sometimes to pull stuff for my own campaigns/systems, sometimes for its own sake. So I don't mind if I buy some books I won't end up running, so long as I can budget for it. It also helps the people designing and publishing those games.

So I don't think there's really anything to answer the question, "What is going on?" We're just having fun, and that's enough. :)

[–] vdonnut@diyrpg.org 1 points 2 years ago

I haven't played over half of the games I own. And I won't play them probably because it is so hard to find willing players. But I have so much fun just reading some of them I don't worry about it.

As long as it is fun for you, don't worry.

[–] Flushmaster@ttrpg.network 1 points 2 years ago

If you feel you're getting your money's worth from just reading the stuff then you're fine. Though if you really do want to actually play games using them I recommend finding a group and doing so, either in person or online. This community has an LFG section attached to it if you don't know where to start.

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Are you actually playing TTRPGs regularly?

[–] copacetic@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 years ago

I have a regular Dungeon World group. For some months I also played Beyond the Wall in parallel.

[–] RedKrone@mastodon.social -1 points 2 years ago

@bionicjoey @copacetic no... BUT I should start today a modded #Ironsworn game, it's something :blobcatcoffee:

[–] ccryx@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Why don't you play the material though? What's your favorite unplayed stuff that you bought?

[–] copacetic@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Latest one “Grok?!” was cheap at least. Family duties severely reduce opportunities to play and the remaining time is already filled playing other stuff. Maybe I should play more one shots instead of campaigns.

[–] ccryx@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 years ago

I can relate, between work and chores, there's not much time left. The last time I really played was back in school, with people I've lost contact with. If I wanted to play now, realistically I'd have to DM which brings us back to the whole lack of time thing.