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[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago

i hate the lemmy git merge conflict

[–] mossy_@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

there's a catholic dating discord? That just seems inefficient

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It's not inconvenient, probably because there's not too many bios to look through. And it's unique because, outside of the channels for posting a bio and sometimes the flert channel, it's slightly weird people talking about mostly non dating related stuff, while still being with a relatively large portion of single Catholics, so it kinda emulates real life.

[–] mossy_@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I would think the best place to find single catholics would be, like, after church in the vestibule

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago

"...Plus this discord has a really easy to see role that tells others who's single and who isn't" - a member of the discord, in response to the discord versus vestibule question. Pathetic but relatable.

Mass really is the least social kind of Catholic event, including afterward in the vestibule. I've had better socialization experiences with a Bible study led by a high school kid in her basement, talks at the newman center, etc.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Good luck! Hope you find someone kind!