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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I found this critique of L's voice training guide, and I think it does a good job explaining why the guide is considered to be outdated. A lot of the concepts and exercises mentioned are still frequently used within the trans community, so it's definitely worth reading through, even if you're not using L's guide

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just thinking about how much sooner my egg would have cracked if I had ever vocalized my gender envy ("damn I wish I was her") to the right people. I never did because I thought that was part of finding someone attractive and was/would be seen as the same as me (a straight guy at this point) saying "damn she's hot" which would be objectifying and rude.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's often a matter of luck sadly, like I needed my ex and english teacher to crack my egg...

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

When you work up a sweat with your significant other panting

spoilerWe spent a few hours unplugging and rearranging our media system, cable tied a ton of cables together to reroute our consoles/pc and hifi/tv/receiver into a non rats nest. We had to turn off fans so it became like a sweatbox for an hour or so. Feels good being productive and to have it done, even though it was like working in a sauna lol

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i would like it to be later now

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

it doesn't have to be october or anything, even being saturday now instead would be nice

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

just skip a whole week of work

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I haven’t noticed really what pronouns my parents have been using at all since I came out, they honestly might not have used any very much at all in that time tbh.

But they definitely both just used “him” right now aubrey-pain

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Are the crystal hearts in Celeste meant to be obtainable without a guide? madeline-deadpan

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[–] Transgenderista@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

finally got to my upper lip during electrolysis this week. pain is just dysphoria leaving the body, right?

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[–] Pisha@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I want to complain about HRT dosage and endocrinologists. Back when I took E via pills, I had some okay hormone levels going, but on the order of my new endo I switched to gel. I don't understand why, but it just doesn't work properly and I haven't been feeling right for a long while now. The doctor never really cared of course. I swear they're trained to think of "cross-gender" hormones as some rare poison that's the ultima ratio for the strange patients. Anyway, I'll be getting a new one soon and if they also suck, I'll have to look into getting a better one at the next town over. Why does it have to be that difficult?

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just finished my first exercise routine since prior to my surgery. Get back and now I see why my notifications were full of "DOUBLE THREAD"

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Exhausting. Three and a half months really deteriorates the stamina. But it felt really fucking good to get back into the swing of things. It marks the true end of my recovery and the return to normalcy for myself.

Oh and I also went outside and touched grass (literally) with my bearded dragon. Haven't gotten to spend time with him in a while <3

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Was reading a manga called X-Gender about a gender weird person, and they talk about the loneliness of not being straight or gay

I'm not lonely, but it is weird that these categories don't really apply to me anymore either. I like femmes, but I'm not a straight guy or a gay woman.

spoilerI'm actually just wifeosexual

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

I just got my face zapped

Don't think they have any experience working with male facial hair

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I haven’t felt inspired to work on clothing diys for over a month until today. Maybe I’ll do some stuff tomorrow, I want to get my wardrobe a bit more in order before I go back to college.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

My mom keeps suggesting I open a storefront for girls my height and shoe size. I seriously wanna but only cause I wanna call it Dysphoria. Sounds like a hyped fashion brand if you didn't know the name. Right now it'd just sell hoodies but I wouldn't mind having a place for people with >size 12 US shoe size a place to buy heels...

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (12 children)

sad posting, dysphoriaI just feel sad. There's a disconnect between my body and who I am. It might actually be multiple years before I can get on E (though I'm trying not to think about it/be too doomer but I just can't get my hopes up for sooner). How can I keep up pretending. How can I get my shit together when I'm like this. I couldn't get my shit together before this and now its just going to be fucking worse. I suck.

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