i need to post more trans things to make the number go up but i can't think of any trans things to post :(((
this post was submitted on 01 Jul 2024
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I know I keep posting but it can make up for my lackluster prescence last week. I just got a new epilator in, and this time I payed a bit more for a wet/dry one. This one also swivels and sounds much less threatening. I tested it on a leg I had epi'd before, and it doesn't hurt nearly as much, meaning I now just have to get over the initial hurdle of initially removing the hair without impulsively returning the epilator (which I did last time).
It's the Braun Silk Epil 9, almost forgot to mention. Cost me a bit but I feel like it will be better than constantly going through disposable razor blades and/or seeking lazer (not covered by my insurance 😔)
Bruans are good and usually come with a few different attachments. Should do you well 
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Are wide hips a meme? Is a wide pelvis as a feminine thing overemphasised and untrue?
nah I think it's totally a thing. generally wider shoulders to hip ratio is more attractive as a man to women and vice versa
I think I read a study while I was cis and researching weird male/female body shit cause I unknowingly had dysphoria
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I wish I could get into the recent movies with a bunch of trans hype around em. idk what the deal is but most other trans girls i know went fuckin nuts over People's Joker and I Saw The TV Glow. I could not stand the former and the latter was just kinda ok? I just don't get it. I'm jelly cuz I want that "this movie really gets me" experience about transness in film. Guess I gotta keep waiting for mine to come around.
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dating, negativity, sadposting
I'm just so sad right now. I'm listening to someone talking about their experience dating 30+ and I can't guys. A lot of people have already found someone at my age, and I have no path towards meeting people. And I'm not who I want to be yet. So what do I do? I could try and find someone now (really in the next few years) but are they going to want to stay with me while I transition/get more femme? What are the odds I find someone who's bi, and likes me both ways. Doesn't seem very fucking likely. Or I wait even fucking longer, with more and more people getting matched and the ever shrinking pool of people who would date me, and I would also want to date. Then just enter the dating pool completely fresh, trying to date another woman as someone who has lived as a guy her whole life. That joke about lesbians moving things along really fast makes me nervous too, I don't want to rush right in to something and I worry that will be seen as me being noncommittal/flaky/like I don't really like her.
How do I even meet people? I'm so awkward and hate the idea of just approaching someone.
NEGATIVITY ABOUT BEING TRANS (WORSE THEN NORMAL), genitals
Let's be real, I'm not dateable now and even after I transition (if I do) I won't really be. Why would someone want to date this huge gross person with all this baggage and straight guy issues when you could just as easily date any of the other wonderful women. Some stuff I don't even want to change. I don't want bottom surgery. Why would you date a woman with a penis if you could find one without? Why would someone date this ugly, brainwormed pretender instead of someone else. They wouldn't.
And I haven't even touched on my issues surrounding sex but its bad. I'm fucked.
doomer/si thoughts
I can't live the next fucking 50 years of my life alone. I can't. I'll fucking kill myself. I am so deeply lonely and I can't stay like this. I feel like all of my issues have condemned me to this. What a fucking hallow and pathetic life. Is this all there is?
dating negativity
I met my wife when she was 35, Idk what to tell you, time moves differently for queers. Also my first relationship easily survived my transitioning and ended later for unrelated reasons. Not everyone is gonna see "a guy" when they look at you, because a transfem person is qualitatively different from a cis man, estrogen or no. "Both ways" is the wrong way to look at it. Also IME nobody cares how long you lived "as a man", honestly.
brainworms
Protip: only you think that being "huge" or having "baggage" makes you unlovable, and it does not. Being 6'6" or heavyset are not dealbreakers for a lot of people, y'know.
The bottom surgery thing... 
Y'know not everybody lives in vulva centrism. Not wanting bottom surgery is cool, actually. As an anecdote, I personally couldn't really care less what sexual anatomy my partner has, and am happy with whatever they might have. I'm not the only person like this. The idea that having a penis would make you undateable is just... untrue, y'know? I have seen plenty of both t4t and cis-trans couples where this is not an issue. I think you're projecting your self hate a little...
doomerism is not ml (thanks modlog)
I'm not gonna sit here and act like the trans dating life is easy, but also I came out young and haven't been single since I was 15 years old, this is not anywhere near as much of a death sentence as you think it is. I promise 
I can relate to it being awkward to approach people, at least... Social shit ain't easy...
(Text "fuck you" to stop replies if I've been replying too much <3)
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Speaking of hair what are ya'll doing with yours?
I'm rocking a short shag.
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cw homophobia, transphobia, Shimanami Tasogare
See, the trouble I have is that this woman is not immediately fucking burnt at the stake or something:
M*nga that forces you to just sit with brainwormed queerphobia. Do not want.
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i went to a bar last night and saw a pride flag with a miller lite can on it. i think i turned into the joker for half an hour
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There is a sick, twisted, FUCKED UP part of me that sees a CW like this, and goes "
Lets fuckin go boys, lets see ya!!!!"
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