god she's so great, i love her. if only she was a remotely playable card
traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
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Transmasculine Pride Ring 
All dressed up, nowhere to be, ever
I could rot, let's do it together
Yoooooo she jus like me fr fr!! I lied, Fishmonger fucks. Hits different the fourth time
kinda depressing trans related thoughts
Man... sure does seem to be difficult to get people onboard with the idea that anyone under 18 should have the right to determine their gender and do anything medical at all about it Obviously in western nations there's this ridiculous perception of one's children as property, as a mini-version of the parent subject to their whims, to live vicariously through, as a prestige item. I swear to fuckin god death to amerikkka, chuds keep saying The West Has Fallen, like god I wish.
But also just in general I think there's a lot of resistance to the idea that kids should be allowed to do anything. The anecdote the one gradder shared of some 27-year-old exchange student needing parental signoff blows my fucking mind. Granted, maybe that type of thing is less of an issue when parents are less dogshit, but Idk. It does not bring me joy.
Just finished my second individual session 0 with my group for Pathfinder. So far, two successes out of two sessions. Getting pretty big compliments from the two people I've run for thus far and it feels awesome. They're having fun and I hope that session 1 goes just as great for everyone. And I must say, I'm having a great time thus far DMing. It's fantastic.
Went to a filmshowing that was advertised as being organised by one of the local queer groups. Well, very few people were there, but the film was ok. Later managed to talk with an organizer, and found out that none of the 3 local groups do anything for trans people.
He even said, that he was ""too old"(he was like 35) for the topic, and that the biggest community (from like 1970) is "certainly" not helpful for me.
So it seems like the local organizers treat trans-issues as a modern phenomen, and that the biggest and oldest queer org, looks to be some conservative "LGB" bullshit.
Also the city council is deeply reactionary, from what I've heard, doing everything short of outright illegalizing pride, to keep it from being organized.
I got the number of a local transwoman of him though, and I will try to contact her to actually get somewhere.
Hope everyone has a nice day for the last day of pride month tomorrow!
The fact that literally all the major boss fights have an npc summon and multiple questlines relies on you summoning npc clearly shows that Fromsoft wants you to summon.
Got around to watching I Saw the TV Glow on Saturday night.
I loved the movie, but like it wasn't as emotionally devastating as I'd hoped it would be. Maybe I'm just busted? Idk like I definitely connected with the film on a lot of its parts/aspects. There were even certain parts of the film where I already knew what the main character was going to say before it was said.
spoiler
The part on the bleachers where Tera/Maddy was asking Isabel about her sexuality hit a little too close and I literally answered "I don't know" out loud before Isabel did.
Idk maybe I'm more emotionally locked up than I thought or maybe my expectations were too high or maybe I was just too ready to be analytical instead of just taking the movie as it comes.
I'll re-watch it again, probably soon. I'll definitely remember it as one of my favorite movies, I identify far too personally with the text for it to not be; I just wanted to share the connection with it that many trans people are saying they felt with it, and I'm a little disheartened that I feel like I didn't connect in the same way that some people did.
We're approaching 300 comments on Wednesday. They only perceived a fraction of our power before. Now they are coming to realize how POWERFUL we truly are!
"LGBT Rights in ___" summary tables on Wikipedia will literally say "Equal age of consent ✅/❌” but not "Equal age of puberty ✅/❌" Intriguing!
Booba
My right titty be hurting a lot today No pain no gain, amirite?
complaining about my therapist, detrans, generally not really believing me
The cw kind of sums it all up but this week's session really didn't make me feel better about them. They brought up detrans people and how important it was to make sure before doing anything (I mean I guess?). Talked about how many of their clients stopped after two weeks. They talked about how I never ha e really put effort into how I look and should try that more before deciding to transition.
Another big thing they brought up was influence, as if I was being influenced into being trans. They talked about that for a little while.
I'm sure they said some affirming stuff too, like about how small things can be really helpful (like plushies/nails).
I don't know. I'm so insecure in my identity already I just wish they weren't like this. I know some of it seems really bad but this is how they are about other things too, just likes to explore all the options I guess.
And yes I'm pretty stuck with this one, at least for now. It just really sucks this is the best I have irl (I know having a therapist at all is a huge privilege but I do wish I had some trans/ally friends)
Playing Celeste (I must have grabbed it in a bundle thousands of years ago) to see if it's actually good
I keep going to the home page thinking the trans mega is still pinned but it's not.
catastrophizing about work
I'm really stressed about my job. I like my job, and I like the work. But I'm worried about the future when it becomes hard to ignore my transition. Its not a big place, there is only 15 of us. More than half are boomers who will be retiring in the next few years. Most of the rest of my coworkers are your standard variety Gen x Cartman wannabe types. But a few are really cool and probably won't be a problem. Both my foreman and the big boss really like me. I'm super productive compared to the boomers and I know things no one else does.
But the work culture is shitty blue collar in a shitty Midwestern state. 80% of the work I do, I am in the field and alone for, but I do have to spend time at the shop. The city where work is located has some really strong anti-discrimination laws and they can't just fire me. Especially since I've had nothing but exemplary reviews every 6 months for the last 3 years. I'm outside of my apprenticeship, I'm outside of any probationary time.
I guess I really don't want to be a target and I really don't want to get fired. Sure, I'm positive I'd win the lawsuit if I got fired but still I am stressed about the potential stress of it.
Looking @ the nonbinary flag in this dork youtube nerd's profile pic, and a switch flips somewhere in my brain - Oh yeah, me now
Funny enough I always thought the nb flag was rad as hell. I'll be internalising this for probably the next few months at least - every other day it seems I recognise a new and funny way that being nb alters my being, feels good.
i'm so sorry to keep talking about my tits like this but holy fuck
they're big enough to where i can like... shove my index finger right between the two of them while wearing a bralette there's enough of a gap to just slide right in there
Dastardly controllers of featured posts: *removes trans mega*
Trans mega: "Fuck it, we ball "
I got a little enamel pin that is this emoji . It's soooooo cute. I pinned it to my hat and wore it out today to my therapy session. I also went in full fem mode skirt and girls t shirt and sports bra with some "bust enhancers". I think I looked really fuckin cute.