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[–] Bat@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

how do I find a guy who’s okay with dating a trans woman, is not a chaser, and is not an egg? it’s never going to happen is it agony-wholesome

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

damn they got me on a "not fucking around" dosage of HRT. i checked with my trans woman friend to compare dosages and mine is higher with spiro to boot

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

I think I'm balding, fucking hell

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Holy fuck I am so incredibly jealous of women :cri: why can't I look like that. I just want to be her, ya know? And then I see a lesbian couple and oh my god :kitti-cry: why isn't that me? I keep like actually tearing up.

Why am I in such a gross man body. It feels so weird to even type these feelings out from my body. Like I'm a fraud.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Straight up, neo vagina is cool and good 👍

I know there's at least one poster here who didn't want faers done, I appreciate that. But I'm saying for those who want one, it's fucking dope. I love em, I want one of my own! ♡

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)

anyone have experience with mtf HRT's effects on keratosis pilaris? I've got some on my arms but a lot on my legs :( people generally report clearer skin w/ estrogen but i'm not sure if that applies to this... some people on reddit-logo say it helps some say no change

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Dysphoria bad, at the intersection of being unfortunately fortunate is annoying and awkward

[–] Bat@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does anyone have brow advice? I've got a gross uni brow and I've got to do something about it, but idk how

[–] vertexarray@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I use eyebrow-contoured wax strips like these guys for a first pass, then a pair of scissor tweezers to clean up errant hairs

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[–] m532@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

CW transphobiaI just confirmed what I suspected for a while. My stepdad is transphobic. Urgh

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel like I'd be procrastinating HRT if I had it

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Surprisingly, I haven't missed a dose yet in the ~3 weeks since I started. Given I often struggle to get out the door without forgetting at least something so often (and I basically always just bring the same stuff), being consistent isn't exactly my specialty. Guess its something I think about a lot or something.

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

My sleep schedule is so out of whack right now. Nowadays, I’ve somehow retained the ability to just sleep at will, which is something I haven’t had in a decade. My brain is incapable of controlling it, so I just pass out for like four hours at a time at little notice. Not that I’m complaining except I need a rigid sleep schedule for next week when the Summer Basho starts. I watch it live; I don’t even care that Japan is 15 hours ahead.

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Daaaammmmmnnnn 200 comments and it's only Wednesday. stonks-up

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

Girl who fills your DMs with german punk music from the 70s????

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

Sex is fucked up, I have decided.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

depersonalization talkSometimes I feel like my body is a mech suit I'm piloting around. Or like I'm a little farther back in my head then I should be (I have no idea if that makes sense). It feels a little like when I had esketamine (not at its peak, more the beginning and end). I was actually concerned for a while the esketamine broke something in my brain.

Is that kinda what trans depersonalization is like? Do any of you feel the same way?

[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Oh yeah. That is definitely something that I've experienced in the past. Same goes for both of my partners. It's not a fun feeling. I'm not certain there's really a way to work around it aside from continuing to push forward with what you're doing for yourself. Keep strong and carry on.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I’m getting back into reading, but now my issue is that I need physical copies to really enjoy reading and they’re so expensive cri even on thriftbooks a lot of the stuff I want is in the $20 range

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

okay i want to look like a girl but i also have always thought i'd be good at being an old man so i guess i'm going to detransition at the age of 58 and become Red Green. even if I don't I have like 30 years to think about that decision

[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I got my estrogen patches today, am supposed to take them 4 times a week, so 42 hours. I found no timer app that could do above 24 hours, or only in daily increments. So I rounded up to 48 hours, that is much easier to time, and only plus 6 hours.

I really didn't expect the planning to be any work. But a patch each 1.75 days was a bit annoying. I really should get a pocket calendar, this would have been much easier if I didn't have to remember it from memory each time.

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