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[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 56 points 1 year ago (2 children)

i never read house of leaves and i don't know anything about it

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yep as I remembered that's the one where every instance of the word "house" is colored blue

[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 60 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Egon@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Dessa@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

What was it that you thought Duke had nuked?

[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i don't care if you're not but i'm going to take that as if you were talking about me because it made me feel great :)

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

kitty-cri oh my god i would give you the best hug you've ever got in your life if i could right now thank you

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 32 points 1 year ago

in the book house of leaves (which is a good book that i'd recommend) every time the word "house" is written it is written in blue. this is just part of a whole bunch of cool format weirdness the book plays with

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

As a non-binary person, my advice on how to write an accurate non-binary character is to make them a superhero that's invisible at all times. You gotta get that essential erasure trait in!

[–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The correct way to write a bi character is to have them break up with dudes because they're actually straight and women because they're actually gay.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

Tim Drake be like

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Nah you just write a lady and then change the pronouns. Unless it's an AMAB non-binary character, then you don't write it because they don't exist.

[–] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Please refer to me as the Minotaur from House of Leaves

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

very funny that this shows up as green for me. not what the minotaur looks like

[–] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I miss when the text was guaranteed to turn pink sadness

[–] Mog_Pharou@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Is House of Leaves good? It's been sitting on my shelf for ages

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

yeah it rules. weird horror-ish book that goes places

[–] the_itsb@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

It's one of my favorites. It came out when I was in my late teens and working at a library, and it really knocked my socks off with its presentation and style. You have to read the physical book, though. So much of the vibe of the story is relayed in the way the words are arranged on the page, which is very often decidedly non-standard.

[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's extremely fun if you have the patience for it. You'll especially enjoy it if you have experience with and/or enjoy reading academic texts, because the format of the book (and the frame story) plays around with footnotes, endnotes, citations, and references quite a lot. Go into it like you're reading a Serious Academic Work and do all the things you'd usually do with that (margin notes, cross-referencing different mentions of similar ideas, etc.) and it's especially rewarding. Even without all that stuff, though, it's a banger of a horror-romance.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

Go into it like you're reading a Serious Academic Work and do all the things you'd usually do with that

Skip to the end first and read maybe half of the sections before tossing it aside to read the conclusions sections of exactly 1/3 of its own citations?

[–] Owl@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

like it or not, this is what the ideal male body looks like

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The cis man who responds to the trans rep writing post may need to be reeducated.

Idek what kind of advice I'd give to cis people writing trans characters. I can count on one hand the amount of cis-written transes that are funny. Just don't be cringe nerds big-cool

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

to be fair it was specifically asking him, this wasn't an open post he chose to respond to. and he opens and ends his statement with "i'm cis, don't ask me ask a transmasc person," i think this is about the best he could do

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

Aw that's awkward, poor boy =)