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Children who displayed aggressive behaviour at school, such as bullying or temper outbursts, are likely to earn more money in middle age, according to a five-decade study that upends the maxim that bullies do not prosper.

They are also more likely to have higher job satisfaction and be in more desirable jobs, say researchers from the Institute for Social and Economic Research at the University of Essex.

Capitalism rewards bad behavior

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Capitalism is literally anti-social, like you said it rewards bad behavior. I hate that anti-social just means not liking people in pop culture and not the whole range of terrible behavior like being a bully or even worse a crybully.

[–] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think it's rather Capitalism promotes toxic social behavior, but it doesn't promote being anti-social necessarily.... though that'd be one of its side-effects...

[–] blobjim@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's the actual meaning of anti-social. You'll even see it referred to in some governments' communications. It's the newer term for sociopathy it looks like.

[–] Tachanka@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

Sort of. The earliest version of the DSM used the term sociopathy but I think subsequent versions starting in the 60s referred to it as antisocial personality disorder and noted that it had also been referred to as sociopathy or psychopathy.

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Who the hell ever thought bullies don't prosper? They never had a boss?

[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

I guess there's a liberal idea that bullies will get their just deserts when they enter "the real world", but idk if anyone actually believes it, just something to that effect gets said a lot to kids

[–] QuillcrestFalconer@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah if you look at people at the top, a ridiculous percentage of them are complete sociopaths

[–] Greenleaf@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’ve had a decently long career in the corporate world. It’s definitely true that the smartest and most hard working people aren’t necessarily making the most money. If I could identify one characteristic of what seems to get people promoted and into higher paying jobs, it tends to be the ability to exert your will on others. It’s possible to do this without being a bully, but it’s pretty rare.

But the idea that capitalism a meritocracy where the smartest and hardest working people earn the most is definitely bunk.

[–] KobaCumTribute@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

But the idea that capitalism a meritocracy where the smartest and hardest working people earn the most is definitely bunk.

IIRC "meritocracy" was coined as a sarcastic term for a deeply nepotistic system, mocking how it portrayed itself as elevating "the best" when it was actually just elevating inbred aristocratic failsons. Liberals of course seized upon and adopted the term unironically in much the same way Americans adopt Starship Troopers' fascist absurdity unironically.

[–] DickFuckarelli@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

One of those "I knew this to be true before I read the article" article.

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

Ruthlessness is rewarded in companies. Aggressive dickheads in school are aggressive dickheads in workplaces but age results in them adapting it for the setting.

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

Personality predates Ideology, you were a bully and a dickhead before you were a Fascist. If you agree that Nazis get punched, then your kids should agree that bullies get punched.

Get bulled once, tell your teacher, get bullied twice, tell an admin, get bullied 3 times? Give the bully the consequences they earned.

[–] Voidance@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Can we have meritocracy?
We have meritocracy at home
The meritocracy:

As shown by the documentary Back to the Future 😌

[–] Cunigulus@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

A lot of bullies just have high levels of confidence and good social skills. Most of them work out their sadism and lack of empathy in childhood and become well-adjusted adults.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

It's because they learn how the system works. Bullies learn what is just exactly acceptable and then they keep going to that line and push and push until their victim breaks and gets punished for retaliating. Seen it too many times. Schools that have zero-tolerance policies are havens for bullies.