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I'm very introverted, so loneliness was usually not a big problem for me. But now I feel like I just need some more people to talk to. Just something else to do besides work.

How do you all do it?

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[–] itappearsthat@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Fun group physical activities like hiking or rock climbing or BJJ or volleyball/basketball/flag football/ultimate rec leagues is where I have met essentially all of my friends.

IRL meetups for any hobbies you have. Even things like jigsaw puzzling have meetups.

[–] MarxIsTheOnlyGodIWorship@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (9 children)

I just don’t understand why these people have no interests already? Like why ask people for ideas in what to do who doesn’t know what hiking is? I recommend meetup.com though for sure, there’s also bumble bf and some other apps if ou search that one

But yeah choose thing you like to do—-> apply public/outside/other humans and you can be healthy then

[–] spacecadet@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

It's called being depressed

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