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Bullying is not a joke. We joke about it, but it is a strategy. The key thing about it is that most internet bullying is done not to try to change the mind of the target, but to engage an audience and let those who disagree with a statement but don't have the confidence or knowledge to engage know that someone is on their side.
Additionally, there's the aspect of "is the bullying really bad when it's in response to an evil society?" Mark Twain put it better:
And, lastly, here is a good writeup from a while back: TastySnack on bullying
Oh, meant to respond to Pluto, oops.
Word. It's so important to remember that you should be thinking about educating and changing minds in the unseen audience, not just or even primarily the person you're debating/arguing/cussing out.
A lot of the "bullying", if it's working at all, is saying to the audience "no, this lib really is a monster normalizing monstrous things and you don't have to accept this behavior as normal or civil. You can and should loudly and violently reject these norms, and you're not alone in doing so."