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Trans men, are there any more-or-less universal things not to do/say in bed with you? (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 year ago by someone@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

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I have a meet-and-greet no-obligations coffee date this week with a trans man, probably leading to him coming over this weekend if we hit it off in person. I'm a cis bi man, and I've never been with a trans man before. Obviously he and I are going to talk about mutual expectations and limits, safewords, etc. But are there any things that I should absolutely not do or say that are basically universal in the trans man experience? I want to get off on the right foot.

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[–] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

I am at the point now where I am actually questioning my orientation a bit given how attracted I am to androgynous people and anyone more feminine than that

I'm inexperienced anyway and never had any chance to experiment