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TIL Teddy Roosevelt's dad was cold and distant.
Somewhere there was an article I quite liked that basically said, in the quest to discard toxic masculinity, a lot of modern US culture has also turned against the idea of nontoxic masculinity. Like if someone likes man stuff then there's automatically something wrong with them.
I don't know enough about Teddy Roosevelt to say for sure, but I suspect he was just a big boisterous person which is fine. If we find out he secretly beat his wife or was a womanizer or something then sure, but to me my rough impression is that he was anything but unemotional or evil and just had a good time with his life.
Young Teddy was very much not athletic, in fact he was sickly and asthmatic. Over time he literally remade himself and overcame his early health issues. Getting into heavy duty physical activity and using that to overcome early challenges probably was a hell of a lot of fun, and it was continuing the process of self-improvement that made his life so much better to begin with.
Makes sense. And yeah. That's non toxic masculinity (or, whatever you want to call it, the gender-neutral term). It's okay to want to overcome real challenge and feel like you're strong and capable and test yourself. In some circles it is even encouraged.