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[–] replaceable@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can see how having upper middle class interests would isolate you from other communist, its probably not possible for them to share your interests because they are beyond their financial means, but maybe you could try to find a new interest that you could have in common with the communists you come in contact with

[–] AcidLeaves@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yea, I've been trying but it's a little bit difficult because of the chicken egg situation

I only have well off friends -> end up doing stuff that mostly well off people enjoy

And to befriend non well off people I need to be interested in stuff that non well off people do and enjoy, but that's also infinitely easier when I can hang out and fit in with non well off people

[–] space_comrade@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And to befriend non well off people I need to be interested in stuff that non well off people do and enjoy, but that's also infinitely easier when I can hang out and fit in with non well off people

Can't you hang out with fellow party members? When I was in a party we hung out fairly regularly after meetings and such.

[–] AcidLeaves@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I do a lot but hanging out is a lot different than being close friends

[–] space_comrade@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe invite some of them to hang out in private? Maybe treat them to some of the bougie shit you enjoy? I didn't meet many communists that were inherently against eating or drinking nice stuff, most just can't really afford it.

[–] AcidLeaves@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm not close enough to anybody to invite them to a thing outside of party events yet :(

I'm still working on it though!

Actually now that I think about it, I have a few times but those friendships all fizzled out due to them not committing to organizing regularly so we drifted