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its official my partner is ace and aromantic (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 year ago by JustSo@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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I thought she just didn't want to do sex stuff or cuddle or show affection..

Anyway I just thought it was important to let the world know that you can be volcel army and still be in a committed ten year relationship. In fact isn't that what true comradeship is built on?

Weapons grade cope aside, I think I'm one of those weird types of humans who needs affection and so on. Am I really going to have to start dating again? FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

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[–] ryepunk@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

My ex was ace as well. Together for 8 years so I feel for you comrade. Like you initially there was much smashing but gradually it just became barely a yearly thing. And I realized that I do need that level of intimacy from a partner so we went our own ways. Wish it hadn't cost me my apartment but oh well I'm lucky and my parents have a basement room I have been living in ever since.

The dating pool welcomes you back with open arms.