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I thought she just didn't want to do sex stuff or cuddle or show affection..

Anyway I just thought it was important to let the world know that you can be volcel army and still be in a committed ten year relationship. In fact isn't that what true comradeship is built on?

Weapons grade cope aside, I think I'm one of those weird types of humans who needs affection and so on. Am I really going to have to start dating again? FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

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[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (19 children)

Nah seriously. I think this is a cry for help or advice. I love this person and I'm not sure how well I'd be able to juggle non-monogamy-with-emotional-characteristics.

Has anyone navigated these waters? Regale me with your stories. Good or bad, it's all the same to me.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No experience, but seems like trying out non-monogomy would be the best way to find out how it works for you? If it doesn't work, then you get to decide what's important to you then.

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah it's looking like I'll have to have another shot at it I suppose if this state of affairs is going to be permanent.

I kinda dated a guy year before last, but last I heard he's living with the man of his dreams. I sure know how to pick em.

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