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My theory is that a lot if not most people are born with the propensity to be bisexual (like at least a Kinsey 1), but their environment growing up makes most of them default to being straight. Like a developing child or teen is going to understand that straight is the norm and just subconsciously dismiss any consideration of being bi. Once they've fully developed without considering or exploring, that propensity fades away.
But since being LGBT is not only normal and common but kind of celebrated in Gen Z, a lot more kids and teens now are likely to really consider it and end up activating that propensity. I expect Gen Alpha numbers to be even higher.
To put it a little more simply:
At one point there was a debate of "nature vs nurture". I think nature for most is bi, but nurture (their entire environment, not just parents) molds most into being straight.
tbf I am quite biased considering I'm bi myself, so I can't really understand why people wouldn't like both. But the numbers are pointing to it.
I think some of this is also why some homophobes consider being gay to be a choice, cause they're bi and it kinda is for bi people
Though the heart does want what it wants. Im first come first serve for whoever catches my attention
This was me as a teenager. I didn't get why people wouldn't just choose to be straight - I made that choice every day that I repressed my attraction towards men!
But now it's like, "Wait holy shit there are people who are categorically not attracted to an entire sex?". That's way more wild to me than the idea that people would be attracted to people of the same sex. Imagine seeing a hot guy/gal (tastes accounted for) and just not being into that. Damn.