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God genital preferences are absolutely painful and kind of feel dehumanizing, even though I understand they’re valid
I’ve already internalized my bits as part of my identity so even though they’re not “supposed” to be what I identify with, it still hurts, like someone is rejecting my very self
What do you mean exactly?
EDIT: Ahh. This is the same struggle I had leading up to my egg cracking. Once I started to realize that the bits don’t make the person, the person makes the person, it helped me better internalize who I was. It ain’t easy. I dealt with this for years before I was able to accept it and really see it for what it was, but I eventually came out the other side a better woman.
sexual reference
I mean that someone I was sexting/RPing with basically dropped me because I had a penis and I didn't want to change myself in the RP world to not have one. While I would normally love the ability to change my genitals at will doing it for someone else feels wrong.Ohhh…yeah. That’s a major feels bad moment. I’m sorry you had to deal with someone like that. No one should have to go through that. :<
I've been feeling torn because I understand a lot of people have trauma around penises and stuff, and that even without that it's valid, but it just sucked a lot