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Feeling unfulfilled in my relationship, but afraid of loneliness (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 year ago by bubbalu@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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Things are alright, but we have moderate differences in goals and life paths that make a more fulfilling relationship unlikely. Being with him is really fun and affirming, but it just feels like something is missing. At the same time, I am afraid if I end things to focus on dating more I'll be lonely and feel selfish.

Looking for advice and perspectives on when to leave or stay.

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[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

I appreciate the advice. We have talked about it at length sadly and it doesn't seem like things will change. Now is sort of a holding pattern where things are okay but many of the things that are important to me aren't going to fit his life.