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[–] PapaEmeritusIII@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If your crush wouldn’t be into you when you’re at peace with yourself, they’re not worth it

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 14 points 1 year ago

What they said

[–] SacredExcrement@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Moreover, even if you try and 'make yourself be at peace' while trying to conform to what your crush likes, you'll eventually end up resentful

Either loathing yourself for trying to be who you are not, or resenting your other for not liking you for 'who you are'

Or both

Really, just be yourself comrade. It's easier and better for you

Care-Comrade