Facepalm

Yeah but isn't the whole crux of the thing that people aren't responsible enough to give consent while drunk?

Not exactly how I'd frame it but go on...

But if you're not responsible for your actions while drunk

Wait what, who who said that? That's not a conclusion based on your premise. All we said is that intoxicated people can't consent.

I mean sure don't have sex with a lady if she's way too drunk, but that can be difficult to determine.

Would it be reasonable to believe they would consent to sex with you while sober?

And yeah, I've woken up with women I wouldn't have been with had I been sober. Was I raped?

Was it reasonable for them to think that you would have consented to sex with you while you were sober?