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Rules:

Follow all blahaj.zone rules
All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.

Resources:

Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.

Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/

[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination

[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/

[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/

[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/

[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on

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ventpost : feeling a bit alienated from the wider trans community (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 2 years ago by kittykittycatboys@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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mrow sso im amab and am liike,

i id as both transmasc and transfem, cuz i oscillate around androgyny, but i like being a boy (in like a trans boy way not a cis man way)

i also id HEAVILY w cats (sorry for caps ><) so like theyres that ig. i i sometimes get stuff that says i either havd to be a girl cuz im amab, or i have to be enby and use theythem, or im just a dumb cis boy chasing clout and and just uwaaa ;-;

im not very comfortable reading about alot of transfem mtf stuff esp around like body tips and idk as well as just hrt in general with both t and e mrowrr and i just cant handle it ><< i think bc of ll the times people hav told me i need to and its its bad

also cuz im a trans catboy people r like ur a furry or ur a therian , which.. i i dont quite fit there eitherrrr >~<

is all this just the usual imposter syndrom plus heavy socual anxiety or or am i doing sonething wrong?

in need of advice and probably hugs aswell, max ur local friendly catboy who just wan friends ><<

thankyouuuz vermuch, sorry for the textdump ><

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[–] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

First of all, how old are you? Like you don't have to be any form of trans, just be gender nonconforming, genderfluid, a gender, whatever. If you want to explore HRT later that's fine, but doesn't sound like something you want which is valid. Don't feel like you have to be trans.

[–] kittykittycatboys@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago

meow i am trans, im just not like trans in the typical way cuz im also gnc >w< hrt is not something i wamt (unless theres like perfectly andro or a catboy hrt >.<)