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I’ve found myself interacting my gender much more through theoreticals than through actually trying anything and it’s been hellish. I need to start actually doing stuff but I’m terrified of how I’m going to be perceived.

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[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 17 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Yes, it sucks. I would like to be called they/them IRL instead of she/her and start wearing a binder but I'm too fucking shy

[–] pixelghost@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago

Start small. I tried out new pronouns and presentation within my close friend group before I moved it out to my public image—and I flip-flopped and hesitated a lot in the process.

Anxiety sucks but you'll get there eventually.