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I’ve found myself interacting my gender much more through theoreticals than through actually trying anything and it’s been hellish. I need to start actually doing stuff but I’m terrified of how I’m going to be perceived.

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[–] GaveUp@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Yep, started estrogen half a year ago (after half a year of doing absolutely nothing), and came out to all my friends and workplace but that's pretty much all I've done

This only held back my dysphoria till a few months ago and now I feel like shit again

[–] Raebxeh@hexbear.net 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What’s with the whole “holding back my dysphoria” thing? It feels like I make progress and then if I don’t continue making progress I regress. There’s no proper stagnancy which is weird.

[–] GaveUp@hexbear.net 3 points 2 years ago

Pretty sure it's just Hedonistic Treadmill phenomenon

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill