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[โ€“] fullkitwanker@aussie.zone 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

What's > 0? She's been replying like once every 12-15 hrs anyway. I'll probably give up if I don't hear back tonight. ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™‚๏ธ

Is it worth texting one more time or just let it be?

[โ€“] bull@aussie.zone 8 points 2 years ago

The ball is in her court, which is very apt

[โ€“] Pilk@aussie.zone 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Don't give up after one message. Especially since you had obvious rapport.... she wasn't talking to you for no reason.

Be prepared for it to be a sign she's not interest. But there's no reason to jump to conclusions yet.

[โ€“] fullkitwanker@aussie.zone 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah we had a good conversation going. I just feel sad, why am I so invested in this?? Also, do you mean maybe leave her another message before giving up?

[โ€“] Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Don't message again. It makes you look desperate. Move on and if she gets back to you, great. If not, whatever.

[โ€“] fullkitwanker@aussie.zone 1 points 2 years ago

Yeah, that's what I thought as well but was confused by Pilk's comment.