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Punt this oblivious bastard. He clearly does not care enough about you to pay any attention to your needs and wants, even when these are reasonable. Possibly including the season of the year. And you would have to be deaf, blind and demented not to notice that xmas was happening. He's taking you for granted. His needs are being met. Yours aren't and probably won't be. You deserve better.
If you want to give him a second chance to get it right, see if he remembers Valentine's Day. If he ignores this too - move out stat. He's not ready for any kind of relationship with another human being. Again, you deserve better.
Yeah exactly, it's not even about the gift giving itself. It's about the needs
It’s also about thoughtfulness and care towards your partner.