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ask if they are straight just say "what kinda person are you into" and if hes not specific say "i mean like guys, girls, ect". if you can make a joke about it do it like "guys, girls, giant blue alien yetis?". this is the most important step. and if they are interested in guys say either in the moments or a few days later if he would like to go on a date, you have to say the word date or else you may end up on an excruciatingly platonic outing. oh and if hes queer but in the closet i would run. dating a closet case will destroy you body and soul and reduce you to nothing, a shadow a secret, a memory of the person you once were.