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well I do have a foot fetish, which is still stigmatized despite being fairly common. but it's not even like my main thing or whatever, I just have a fetish for every part of the human body
idk about smells because I don't have sex so my fetishes are primarily visual AFAIK. but maybe I'd be into it
My own body odor turns me on lol I love being gay.
I've had that happen too. Punks generally don't wear deodorant or wash much but also are outside more, so there's a BO but it's way less cheeto dust chemical stink of Magic the Gathering Tournament BO and I can tell my friends apart by smell and it releases good brain chemicals when I smell them even if it's like a lingering or similar smell. I smell like weed and spring rolls apparently.
I wouldn't call it a fetish but some people have cute feet. I just see them the same as any other body part. Idk the internet has kind of warped this but I always thought a sexual fetish was like something you need in order to derive sexual pleasure from an activity. Like a person with a foot fetish needs to be interacting with your feet during sex or it's just not going to work out. Where a person (like you or me) who just might think you have nice feet in the same way you might have nice hair or eyes or butt or whatever would just be called, like, normal lol
I've been told that's the difference between a kink and a fetish - fetish elements are more or less required to get off; whereas kink elements simply make it better, and not necessarily even in a directly sexual sense. But usage seems to vary