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Any success stories in leaving The Bad Site once and for all?

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[–] beef_curds@hexbear.net 12 points 2 years ago

I was a part of toxic spaces that weren't tttt, and i ditched them by just getting too busy, forgetting about them, and then just realizing I didn't need them.

Focus less on removing the bad thing, and instead try to fill your life with actual, real life, positive things. If you just get rid of the bad thing, you'll feel the void. If you're just too busy, you won't even notice.

Also, make a commitment to yourself in the meantime to make every single post you make there dedicated to calling out the self harm there. That will make it less fun for you and easier to forget.