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Anyone else here NEVER want to be a public figure? (hexbear.net)
submitted 2 years ago by Great_Leader_Is_Dead@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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I ask cuz I was chatting with someone today about a creative project I'm working on, and said if I ever were to publish it I'd want to do so under a pseudo-name because if it did really well I wouldn't want to become famous, the idea of being famous at all makes me anxious.

They felt this was weird of them. Personally I think this can't be an uncommon sentiment, I mean plenty of authors out there despise public life, so I think it's a pretty common feeling.

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[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago

It's not for everyone. I've been exposed to it because I have a relative who's grown increasingly famous in the area and relatives are always going to be targeted because they think you'll help them get closer to their favorite celebrity.

The pressure of people having strong opinions on you, finding articles written about you that will set a narrative about who you are as a person, having people finding you everywhere to get a photo. It's no wonder so many big celebs end up doing substance abuse. Many people really aren't built for it. Some people do what they love and the fame comes as part of the success.

Others crave fame and the idea of being beloved by millions. A lot of them end up becoming influencers doing stupid pranks or hopping on every trend with the hope that they get noticed.