We had to put down our 14yo cat last night he had some neurological shut down but he was my partners for like 9 years and she's devastated, I'm torn too but it's not the same I've only know him for a year. I haven't lost a pet in a long time does anybody have any advice? We had 4 cats now we have 3. I'm just trying to keep busy but my partner isn't handling it well which is understandable I just want to know what I can do to help? I know it's the grieving process I just don't know how to help. I'm trying to keep her distracted but it's hard when we're at work.

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[–] Mickey@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 years ago

I just went through a loss myself. My boy was 17 and I had him since he was a kitten and honestly it still hurts many months later. There is no easy fix. I still start crying at random times if I happen to see his favourite toy or a picture of him. You just need to let it run its course I think and slowly it gets better, just be there for your partner and offer support and hugs.