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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 34 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Being vulnerable was the end of a lot of my relationships.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Don't date selfish bastards, then

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 22 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It's not like they go around with labels on their shirts. Really I don't even think it was a conscious choice for them. Some women just lose their attraction when they see dudes show weakness.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

That type of person is very easy to spot, dude.

[–] HappyFrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What's with the victim blaming?

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago

Oh, please. These types of girls stand out a mile away. You're not a victim, you're just horny for insta-thots.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's not like they broke up with me on the spot. They even were supportive about what was bothering me. The problem is their physical attraction went way down/disappeared entirely afterwards.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 3 points 2 years ago

Did she own a ringlight? 🤣

[–] alx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago

Oh, you didn't mention you were straight. We'll, that's the heart of the problem then