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[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 28 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

This doesn't sit right with me. Les feinberg was very much not someone who really identified with the gender binary construction. Sie used sie/hir pronouns for instance and was AFAB. Idk, this just feels wrong here actually?

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 35 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I think it's very possible that Feinberg went through several phases. Eggs don't crack then suddenly everything is figured out.

[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 30 points 2 years ago

it is possible that my judgement is clouded by a blinding hatred of the FBI

[–] h3doublehockeysticks@hexbear.net 34 points 2 years ago (1 children)

For me, pronouns are always placed within context. I am female-bodied, I am a butch lesbian, a transgender lesbian—referring to me as "she/her" is appropriate, particularly in a non-trans setting in which referring to me as "he" would appear to resolve the social contradiction between my birth sex and gender expression and render my transgender expression invisible. I like the gender neutral pronoun "ze/hir" because it makes it impossible to hold on to gender/sex/sexuality assumptions about a person you're about to meet or you've just met. And in an all trans setting, referring to me as "he/him" honors my gender expression in the same way that referring to my sister drag queens as "she/her" does.

[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 27 points 2 years ago (1 children)

yeah i'm kind of wrong and just hate the fbi i guess

[–] h3doublehockeysticks@hexbear.net 30 points 2 years ago

A good instinct to be sure.

[–] RNAi@hexbear.net 22 points 2 years ago

No idea really, it says that in that time Les chose "she"

[–] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I thought Leslie used sie/hir according to the start of trans liberation

[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 14 points 2 years ago

you're absolutely right, i can't fucking spell