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What was your “it was obvious in retrospect” moment? (hexbear.net)
submitted 2 years ago by ScrewdriverFactoryFactoryProvider@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net
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There’s so much stuff that would feel weird and stereotype-y to see someone else do and think, “they must be trans!” but when I think back on myself doing them, my only thought is, “oh, so that’s what that was about.”

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[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I had a similar moment watching some grainy old concert footage from the 70s, and there was a half-shadowed guitarist with long black locks and a slim-strong build, in that way that typically happens to like rock climbing women. So I said to my friend "Damn, I like a woman with some muscle" and she said "that's a dude" to which I replied "yeah, good, okay."yes