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[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Speaking as an introvert, most of my friends were made through the intercession of an extrovert. He was like a central hub who joined our wires together. XD

[–] Pons_Aelius@kbin.social 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And the plural of personal anecdote is not universal truth.

[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 5 points 2 years ago

Hey, now, it's just a goofy meme, not a polemic on why introverts must find an extrovert.

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I've been in a friendship group of that model and it sucked, because I didn't feel like I mattered. I might have hung out with them, but I realized that nobody was ever interested in me, because they were the extrovert's friends, and not my friends. I much prefer 1-on-1 friendships that I start myself where we gain more people one by one

[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Sorry it ended up that way for you. I eventually went my separate ways with the extrovert but stayed friends with everyone else.