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Sooooooo super awkward questions warming

I just started using a feminine chastity cage to keep the "Lady bits" out from between my legs and to diminish the bulge. I got it on comfortably last night for the first time, I was struggling to not be erect the first couple of times, and then again this morning. So the curiosity kink is gone which is great. So I love the look and feel and the not having stuff getting in the way down there, but I've run into two issues that I was wondering if anyone else has had

First off, I'm precumming constantly. Like i was already wearing a low flow pad in my panties for that reason, but that was getting better. So I assume with time I'll get used to it and it will stop?

B: my skin is like eating the cage. I have one of the really small ones that just smashes the head of my penis as far back as it will go. It's more comfortable than it sounds. But the extra skin that leaves behind slowly creeps over the front of my cage. Like I went to put my pad in and I could barely see the pink and there was just a pool of precum in there. Obvi cleaned it up and pulled the skin back but is this a bad thing? Am I going to hurt myself? It's not uncomfortable, outside of the getting used to it part.

Sorry, didn't know who to ask since the feminine chastity group appears dead, and honestly they're just thirsty for pics and I'm not down for that.

Thanks for the continued love and support.

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

Edit: Spelling (I suck at spelling, and my secretary/wife is not currently reading over my shoulder)

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[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I really want to start making resources here. It seems there not alot unfortunately, especially none gather all in one place. I might be making a google drive and a few docs and spreadsheets in my near future. I can already see it being my next hyperfocus.

Goodbye FO4 modding, hello trans resource guides! I do need something new to burn myself out on ❤️

[–] tama@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Please consider distancing from google for trans content 😅

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I mean ideally sure, but im at a loss. Any suggestions for a service that would let me host potentially several files, would allow collaborative edits from the community and is a service that most will already have? Because other than google i dont really have any ideas

Edit: reading my own comment i sound like an asshole. I swear im not being sarcastic or anything else with this comment. Im genuinely wondering and im bad with words sometimes. Sorry if i come off as such

[–] tama@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 hour ago

Despite being a more recent adopter of proton for mail myself, they also have essentially a replacement suite for Google, there’s a proton drive. Admittedly, I don’t have experience with it as I’ve not for collaboration and have been migrating more and more away from clouds.

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 21 hours ago

Well certainly keep us updated! I don't know how I could help, but by all means let me know, this would be helpful for a lot of people!