Sooooooo super awkward questions warming
I just started using a feminine chastity cage to keep the "Lady bits" out from between my legs and to diminish the bulge. I got it on comfortably last night for the first time, I was struggling to not be erect the first couple of times, and then again this morning. So the curiosity kink is gone which is great. So I love the look and feel and the not having stuff getting in the way down there, but I've run into two issues that I was wondering if anyone else has had
First off, I'm precumming constantly. Like i was already wearing a low flow pad in my panties for that reason, but that was getting better. So I assume with time I'll get used to it and it will stop?
B: my skin is like eating the cage. I have one of the really small ones that just smashes the head of my penis as far back as it will go. It's more comfortable than it sounds. But the extra skin that leaves behind slowly creeps over the front of my cage. Like I went to put my pad in and I could barely see the pink and there was just a pool of precum in there. Obvi cleaned it up and pulled the skin back but is this a bad thing? Am I going to hurt myself? It's not uncomfortable, outside of the getting used to it part.
Sorry, didn't know who to ask since the feminine chastity group appears dead, and honestly they're just thirsty for pics and I'm not down for that.
Thanks for the continued love and support.
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
Edit: Spelling (I suck at spelling, and my secretary/wife is not currently reading over my shoulder)
I'm sorry your partner isn't super on board, I consider myself super lucky. She's definitely confused but wants me to be me, happy and free. I really try and explain everything to her and I know its alot but she's doing her best. This is what I have:
https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1
Also a chastity belt thay helps hold it high and tight really helps.
I'm not quite your size. 6'1" 185lbs but definitely more of a grower for sure. Going from like 2" to 6 or 7"? I don't really measure it. It would be awesome to have a data base like that. I got a special body tape measure that's been helping figure out my sizes but as all women lament there are vast inconsistencies in sizing.
I hope that helps, thanks for you input!
My partner (newly discovered NB and fem-presenting ) IS super supportive, they've been helping me with outfits and things. It's just this one spot (and my voice, but I totally understand why they don't want me to use a different voice around them) that seems to be a bit of a blurry area of understanding.
I have tried sending them a few articles (like the gender dysphoria am I trans article) to help better explain why I "wasn't like this before" although they've never said anything like that my own self-doubt wants to explain to her why I was supposedly a man for the last 6 years we've known each other. (we've broached the topic before but they were more conservative when we first met and got super awkward so I didn't bring it up again until long after I dragged them to the left and we started hanging out with the LGBT group in town)
Lmao I haven't measured since high school honestly I'm just guessing, but if your guess is as good as mine then I see no reason beyond my extra fat it shouldn't work...
Maybe we could try to get mods to start a pinned post or something? No need for names or usernames to be attached to anything, just a listing of measurements and clothes that fit.
I used to work retail at a sporting goods store and holy shit the variation within brands is insane. Take footwear, specifically Nike. Last I knew, they had 3 different factories for making shoes. You would think they would send out standardized sising forms so all 3 produce the exact same size. Based on conversations with company personnel,, each factory was responsible for its own forms. And they were a few mm off for each different one. A few millimeters makes a big difference when you're layering things up and squeezing a foot into it. A 6mm offset is enough to trip people on stairs. And based on videos I've seen of a lot of clothing manufacturers, they cut so much fabric at once the size flares outward at the bottom of the stack, and will create different sizing. We had a store brand that was fully a size off from underarmor. And that was men's clothes. Women's were basically a gamble if you didn't use the fitting room before you leave.
Thanks for the info! Have a fantastic day 😊